Sorry you lost your mom, bro. I have lost an aunt that I was close to to cancer as well.
Only big pharma. Nobody normal, that’s why I said it.
hy·per·bo·le
noun
- exaggerated statements or claims not meant to be taken literally.
Exaggerating to drive the point home that all she’s really doing is being a devoted, loving wife, and people get all twisted up over it. I love Stafford, and I’ve never read a single Kelly Tweet. Many ppl would bitch about anything…even if she invented a cure for cancer, as long as they could take a shot at bashing Stafford.
Making a point in a very light hearted way, man.
My comment had nothing to do with your mom, or my aunt who died of it either. No matter what Kelly says, ppl are going to be offended. I advise her to just be herself. Applies to Kelly, and following my own advice.
My statement is literally no different than saying “You could develop free, clean energy source for life, and some ppl would bitch.” It’s just my opinion, but the mere mention of the word cancer would have to be offensive, in order to be offended by that post.
I get that you have an emotional anchor around it, but where do we draw a line around “offensive” or “rude?”
I teach people how to deal with pain, I don’t coddle them through avoiding pain thier entire life.
If you went through a breakup in high school, and a certain song was playing when it happened, you could easily get sad when that song comes on and not even know why. Subconscious triggers happen everywhere. We must be responsible for our own energy. It takes more to trigger some people than others, that’s for damn sure. I still work on getting more sensitive to my own triggers and seeing where they come from.
Here’s something about triggers…
If we get triggered…(sad, mad, offended, angry, depressed, etc), this can only happen I the Life Condition doesn’t match the Blueprint.
It is in people’s nature to blame the life condition. “You did this to me, and YOU made me sad/angry/etc”.
Victim^^^
OR you can look at the blueprint (your own thinking)
“I notice I’m feeling triggered (sad, angry, overwhelmed, etc). What is causing it? What would I have to believe in order to be triggered, right now? IS THIS REAL?”
What would someone have to believe, in order to believe that statement to be insensitive?
I spend all day teaching people how to deal with thier triggers, not how to avoid them and live in a bubble. I LITERALLY think getting triggered is a good thing, as it is the ONLY way we can grow. If you are always in yoru comfort zone, there is zero growth. 100% of growth happens outside of your comfort zone.
Rooting for you, as a dude, a father, a neighbor, etc.
While I am not going to be rude, I am never going to have a goal of overly protecting folks either. It is healthy for people to learn to deal with their triggers in a healthy way.
Sending love to you and your mom.
This is NOT “tough love,” it’s honest love…connecting to a deeper truth.
It is not “brutally honest,” it’s lovingly honest. I am aware that there is risk to sending this in text, as you can’t read my energy. I am in a very centered, grounded, loving, trustworthy, masculine energy, as I type this. I have only the best of intentions.