I get a little pissed …I’m still human. I just recognize where it comes from, what it is, and remember that it doesn’t matter in my life AT ALL, and move on very quickly.
I am also aware that my energy impacts other ppl, and am very conscious not to project onto others.
Presupposing and making assumptions. We can never know what another person is experiencing in their life. This is pretty far off base. Knowing the pecking order of where my energy goes and choosing to not let a football game ruin my life is not the same as “pretending somethign happened that did not happen”
Understanding law of attraction
understanding that the past is not the future.
understanding that hobbies are supposed to be fun
understanding that people can stress e/o out, and that there’s no need for it
etc, etc, etc
None of that stuff is “pretending”…it’s metacognition…and metacognition from a healthy space.
Those time when I’m not serene? I’m taking control instead of letting God handle it…. And he lets me know what my part is supposed to be along the way.
I just had my page turned on a felony allegation that cost my my family, 3.5 years of my life and over 100,000 lost on fees and no employment during it all.
My peace in my heart is not determined by these circumstances; trusting my Higher power gives me that… and it helps me control my emotions and then I can preserve thru it all knowing whatever the outcome, I can’t control it but my God can…
I here I am not relapsing, not suicidal (anymore) and my anger and resentment to those who screwed ke over are minimal. When I do go down that path, I simply remember we all suck and give back to my god and it’s back to Serenity.
Serenity is active and come and goes depending on me and my relationship with God
I don’t assume that you are unhappy.
Every single person on the planet has a slightly different definition of what that means anyway.
I do, however notice patterns. I can see projection. I can see language patterns and read energy from them, especially when repeated over a long period of time.
I can never know another human’s experience, and if they perceive themselves to be happy or unhappy.
I can only know my own definition of that word and how to pursue it for myself.
Not all “happy/unhappy” is created equally.
My clients give me repeated feedback that they redefine what happiness and fulfillment are…and I am continually doing the same.
Dan Campbell, in his post game interview stated he thought “ Alex” ( both refer to each other by first name, it was Joseph and Barnes but Alex), had a good game. He also stated he liked seeing “Alex” on the field. I don’t see a change coming.
The most encouraging thing is some of the young players are starting to develop. Kerby and Barnes were 2 of the best players on the field yesterday. Paschal also smashed Rodgers twice. Hutch had a INT. Lots of young kids out there. Something to build on anyways. Still need to add a bunch more talent to the defense!
Shit Cap! You blasted Campbell for not playing Barnes for months… now he plays Barnes 50 snaps yesterday and you’re still complaining. lol you should be dancing in the streets right now, your wish has been granted! Not only did he play 70% of the snaps, he played well. I’m happy for Barnes, hope he keeps it up!
There is a lot of good happening. Still need more help, but the cap should be nicely stabilized if I’m reading it correctly, and the way Brad drafts …with…
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This could be super-cool. he might get us a few playmakers as well as a few solid starters to go with 'em.
DT - first priority for me for ever since Suh left. LOL
Don’t be surprised if some of those picks go to WR and RB (maybe even 2 RBs)
In my weekly home poker that worked so well for 12 years but is having a crazy meltdown at the moment.
Where will it go with 3 dug-in people who can see other people’s behaviors and faults clearly, but none of their own? It ain’t over, but the Fat Lady is warming up…
Understanding that EVERYTHING traces back to love.
either an attempt to get it, feeling like there’s not enough of it, feeling unheard (unloved), misunderstood (unloved), lack of control of the love in your life, etc.
When you can see everything as either an offering of love, or a cry out for it, you will start to dramatically improve your relationships.
I am obviously happy for Barnes, I have predicted his success since last year Bengals game. I have often stated opportunity is the key. my concern is, will that opportunity continue. Base on MCDC post game comments about “Alex” ???
I firmly believe that if he earns a spot, he’ll get it. They already let Anzalone go and brought him back. I’m thinking Barnes will get his chance. I think they love Alex as a human…just like they loved Pleasant…and you see where he is these days!