So I just did a West coast tour.,(Fresno, San Fran and Santa Rosa), and while I was gone the bitch got my FIA checked out of the retirement home where he was staying and doing therapy so he could build back strength to use his walker. Before I left he had fallen 3x in 10 days and had to have the EMT’s get him up once and then was taken to the hospital second time and released and finally to the home for therapy. because the hospital said that can’t take him because there is no underlying illness. She got him released and he wasn’t home 24 hours before he fell again. Back to the hospital and the social worker called today to say that the home wouldn’t take him back. He is being released Monday and because the bitch pissed everyone off he has no place to go at the moment. I’m sure we will find something in the state where no one has heard of this ■■■■■■■ bitch but I could be wrong. TRYING to be supportive of my wife but told her that we need to get power of attorney and end this mess. This woman has no friends and her immediate family is barely involved with her. This isn’t because she is old and senile, she’s just an old bitch, Going to spend my weekend drinking hard and staying out of the way unless serious decisions are made. Guys, this is the kind of shit that you have to look forward to some day. For me when I can’t wipe my own ass my doctors will know what to do, Dr’s Smith and Wesson.
How old is she? I’ll give her an attitude adjustment…
High Caliber Medical professionals!
You can’t thrust your way out of all of life’s problem, @Bols.
You are probably right, but it won’t be from a lack of trying.
I know some Glocktors too if you need a referral.
I built an outbuilding for the Glock rep in IOWA. He had signs all over the property. My favorite was, “If you can read this you’re in range,”
I have a feeling that you’re just getting started.
One of the harder lessons in life is we are powerless over others…. Good or bad.
We accept the ugliness of others and we try not to let it get up emotionaly out of control as we have no control over those who hurt us and others
And then we look for ways to fix it if possible…
4 Feb 2019 I had the gun locked and loaded … but God gut punched my spirit and told me He has other plans for me…. Glad I listened to Him
Hey @DeadDog I love you and @CasanovaJack1 I love you guys…
Please never give up… i know life is hard and changing my old mans diapers has taught me this.
But keep going. I love you 
the den loves you guys I know for sure.
Message me any time… Tomorrow is a new day I promise.
Breathe and try not to overreact in the moment
Damm Jack that don’t sound good, let me know bro a got a group of guys at my Bar that do almost anything for a 100 bucks, there great with attitude adjustment.
All kidding aside sorry to hear that.
I look at it this way. I love my wife too much to make her life any harder than it is in this moment. AND, I refuse to let this crap do anything more than make me a better bartender. I deal with people with way bigger struggles than I am currently going thru now or maybe ever all the time. I have been treated more than fairly in my life, there is no, “Woe is me”, because no matter how the worm turns right now I walk away knowing just how fortunate I have been.
I don’t believe that “we are powerless over others”, because guilt is a very powerful tool used by many to that effect. 99% of psychotherapy comes back to guilt, and guilt comes in different forms and once mastered it is very powerful and controlling. No one hurts me because I accept that I am human and I make mistakes but…in my adult life I have tried to never hurt anyone else. I would get no pleasure out of it.
Glad you saw the light and made the right choice. I simply have no interest being a burden on others and wish to go out on my own terms.
A “tune-up”. 
Thanks, he doesn’t deserve what is about to happen to him because of her bull shit. I actually warned my wife that this could happen because no one should have to put up with her crap. I will still drop off meals and deliver her Sunday paper from the grocery store but direct communication is going to be as limited as possible.
Way to “pile on” bro.
Sorry to hear about this trouble, @CasanovaJack1. Really sucks.
We’re all getting to the age when elder care becomes a real challenge.
Just heard a couple days ago that a favorite uncle who is just 71 is entering the medically assisted death process up in Canada. He’s got an aggressive form of dementia and despite great overall health can be gone in just a few months. He’d only recently retired.
Life throws these curveballs and we can only do our best to support loved ones.
No but you can damn sure try!! 
