Tipping Culture

Opinions? No tax on tips now (at least the first 25k, let’s not make it political) so that has to matter, right? I’ve always been a good tipper (18-25% depending on service… All the way down to 10% if I didn’t even get a drink order in within the first 5min of being seated.) But I do question… If you get the same service (drink refills, bringing food, checking in) ordering a $10 salad or a $50 steak, why does the tip go from $3-4 to $10-12?

Is tipping outdated? Should restaurants just raise prices and pay better wages? America is different than most the world in this sense.

It’s just an extra tax at this point.

Those in the service industry want 20-25% now minimum.

Why do we NEED to give $10 because I busted my ass and want to celebrate with a $40 drink instead of the well special.

Answer- bottom line business owners and corporate shareholders.

Transfer the cost to the customer so they can have cheap staff.

I mean I hear of these girls bringing home $900 on a Saturday or Sunday night .

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I think if you start raising prices a lot of people wont show up.

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I view it as a 20% tax on sit down dining and hair services. Other than that I do not generally tip (with some exceptions). There has been a cultural tip creep over the last 15ish years that is ludicrous. I never tipped at Panera 15 years ago, why are they asking me to now?

I should also note that I am the opposite of a high roller, so I’m not in any valet parking situations very often.

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Sit-down places, services, delivery, a good bartender… Yes. I always tip in cash. Fast food and cafeteria type places no, I’m doing all the work.

  1. I don’t think so. I little extra for the extra effort will never go out of style.
  2. If the owner chooses to do that with their business… that’s fine,
  3. America certainly is different.
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Personally I don’t have a problem with tipping in sit down restaurants but I do have a problem with no taxes on them. The tip is a restaurant environment is part of the servers pay. If tips don’t add up to minimum wage the employer must make up the difference. So people in other jobs making minimum wage pay taxes on their income. Why are we giving those whose income is based on tips a tax advantage others don’t have? (I know the political answer). Bottom line is that it is a carve out for a special interest group. I am old enough to get the old people extra exemption. We have to stop treating our taxes like a vending machine to buy votes for one group or another. Soap box over - I try to be generous when I tip unless the service was sub-standard and tip those whose wages are heavily tip related. But I normally don’t tip someone who is getting paid hourly for their work unless they do something that sets them apart service wise.

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This explains your whole point

I even have to tip my gummy guy. It’s bullshit.

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I tip 10-20% when dining out at a sit-down eatery , hell you don’t know how bad someone’s life is, what their going through, and that-so just treat them with grace and respect. The ONLY time I don’t do this, is when we have a rude server our food was cold, or it wasn’t served in a good amount of time-they kept you waiting a extra amount of time.

I only go to restaurants that have a counter where I order the food, grab it and sit down.

There is a ‘(My town name) Meat Company’ and the food is incredible. You can buy a T-bone at the counter and get it cooked there. They have brisket sandwiches that are the best brisket I have ever eaten. Its $18 for the sandwich and fries. I tip $1 to the person at the counter in cash.

There is a chain of locally owned burger places that have a grill, make breakfast before noon, burgers after noon. No tip. You order, they call your number and you pick it up.

I refuse the terrible service for $20 tip. If I order a $40 steak or a $10 sandwich I get the same service except I need to tip 4 times as much for the steak.

No thanks. Americans can use the steps anyway. Around here everyone is fat as ■■■■.

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I always do 20 but if the service is really great ill do 25 percent

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What I do not understand the standard tip use to be 10% then it went to 15% now it is 20% or higher. The explanation is the cost of living is higher, so the server needs a higher percentage tip. I am sorry, but the 10% tip on a higher priced meal is still giving the server more money, so why does the percentage need to go up?

PS I usually tip 20% cash.

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making it as unpolitical as I can, and I mean this socially:

It is time to get rid of tipping. If prices need to be higher, so be it. Tipping is dumb

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And I tip 20% as a rule, byw

Afaik its only an American thing. I think they get offended abroad but i dont really know just what ive heard.

I tip 20% at sit down restaurants. If someone is awesome I usually tip 20% and throw some cash down as well. If I don’t have cash I do 30%. If I’m going to the Oregon Coast or other seasonal destination I usually shade towards the upper side bc those folks are dependent on killing it in four months. If someone sucks I give them 15%. I’m a sucker.

Now tipping at a grocery store or all this nouveau stuff. That I’m pretty skeptical of and resistance towards. But restaurant, barber, cab/car service … I’m pretty generous. Though my work life balance kind of sucks so I don’t have to make those tips as often as many of you do so that’s part of it I’m sure.

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Yes, this is common practice for me. Especially the grace part when you can tell someone is struggling or they are being kind and new at the gig.

I get it.

The annoying part for me is when these places start their card tips at 20% or even 25%

Like how did that become the baseline starting point?

The fanciest restaurants in Europe and South America where I have been have a flat 10%.

If you wanna toss them extra cool.

But the expectations here in America are wild

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I think its because of living. Dollar isnt worth what it was in 90s early 2000

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