He is VERY anxious and avoidant. When he’s confident of an answer, he appears much more direct energy…muuuch more centered/grounded response.
You might say…“well isn’t everyone?”
NO
Some people can own the fact that they are insecure, nervous, don’t know an answer, etc. There is more gravitas to your words and energy when you own whatever it is you are experiencing.
JaMoss is deflecting energetically and some of it isn’t even conscious. He’s nervous AF for many of those questions, and he smiles when he’s nervous as a coping mechanism. He is being charismatic/smiling/coy-type energy…as a deflection technique.
He’s not meaning to make fun of anyone, he is like a skittish woodland creature that takes flight at the first time of fear. He avoids himself and his own actions, feelings, etc. He’s not comfortable with the consequences of looking at HIMSELF!
He is significance driven. None of this surprises me. Good thing he gets his significance from football. There is a lot of tuff buried in him…some can hurt us, some of it WILL help us. He has somethign to prove big time. He is going to have moments of embarrassment. He will. Hoping he matures as a player.
I really would love to be on teh Lions staff to handle stuff like this. I’d have him ready for a press conference like this one, because I would have him ready to own himself like he never has before. Man training. Not coaching on what to say like a. “media handler”…coaching him on how to BE…be himself, be a man, own his shit, and also own the ■■■■ out of his awesomeness (because right now he doesn’t).
Jamo is trying to talk himself into thinking he is awesome. He needs to value himself as a man more, not just a football player.
We all just want to feel okay, and he is no exception. He needs to know he is amazing even if there was no such thing as football. Then the football comes easier.
Our entire team could learn from Sewell. My fav energy of all of them. Him and Ra!