Normally, for various reasons, I watch the game without the game day chat. I always go back and read through it, watching the ebb and flow off the game play out through everyone’s comments, watching emotions rise and fall, knowing very well what the outcome will be. But today I decided to follow along with everyone in real time to experience it in all its splendor, from start to finish.
Wow. I think it is safe to say that having a sounding board during the game is pretty good for most of us. Many people that frequent this board and produce quality content throughout the week (and offseason) use the game chat as an outlet. That goes for all the “level-headed” and “mature” posters on here, and those we all are pretty confident have a screw loose. During the game, all bets are off. It is a cesspool of over-reaction and hyperbole. And guess what? That is fine.
I think a lot of us get upset when we see phrases like ‘SOL,’ ‘worst qb ever,’ ‘poor excuse of a JV football coach’ and other exclamations get thrown around after a bad series or a risky decision that doesn’t pay off. I know I do. However, in the heat of the moment, that is what people do. They go off half cocked, full of emotion, ready to declare something the worst or greatest or whatever. They are letting off steam, frustration and probably are pairing that with a few too many beers.
I find that my blood pressure rises after reading these statements, and just need to remember: These are not proclamations of truth, accepted by all who read them. Most people who make them will walk them back or at least not try to pile on after some time has settled and they have had a chance to sit back and realize the full scope of the situation.
So who is this meta post really for? It isn’t for the over-reactors. There is a time and place for those kind of comments… and it is called the game day chat. I guess it is more a post for me. Towards the end of the first half, I felt like I had to chime in and talk about ‘chicken littles’ and ‘pollyannas’ and how it was the same old board. I didn’t need to do that. My lament of all the extreme comments wasn’t necessary. I didn’t need to be bothered that some people were so bothered.
So if you feel like I do, I suggest skipping the game day chat, or at the very least, try to take a more relaxed attitude to all the over-reaction and hyperbole that will always be part of the game day chat. It is the proper place for it.