I take a breath before I post (if I feel anxiety, which I xonât here, brother)
If you think Iâm even remotely triggered, you are way off base.
If we were sitting at a kitchen table together, you wouldnât even go to half of the things you do/say half of the things you say. I promise you that.
You canât read energy nearly as well through text.
Whatâs interesting is this whole exchange could have been avoided if you just posted my statements you thought were a double standard.
Iâve noticed when you donât have a good argument and people press you on it you just start accusing them of all sorts of wonky bullshit and deflect by tossing out nonsensical meandering rants
The conversation the mods are currently havingâŚ
Humor comes from somewhere. It is based on something. Humor can absolutely be used as a form of gaslighting. Sarcasm, deprecating, creation of division, etc. Us vs them to create teams & build yourself up by invalidating opinions of others. Itâs like watching the propagandaâŚoopsâŚI mean news. Itâs gaslighting.
Making fun of a race, religion, political group, etcâŚsame exact energy you are bringing. Feels like Hannity &/or Maddow -type lens. You either agree w/me or you are a moron.
Recognizing that I created thisâŚ& I am wasting my own time, as you canât assist someone to see something they truly have no interest in seeing.
Sending my best, its all we can do
Josh Allen runs fast which make him better. QBâs who canât run sub 4.6/40 (the only stat that matters) are outdated relics and canât win games in todayâs NFL. I donât even know why we have a Super Bowl, we should just have a QB foot race, winner take all! P.S. I love you all however my satire knows no bounds. 
You think the following thread is on par with mocking race and religion or political groups? I get your humor seems to begin and end with saying so and so should be bald. But good grief. Iâd say you take yourself way too seriously but youâll just accuse me of gaslighting
Wrong - Iâve done that before & it turns into bobbing & weaving⌠sidestepping & moving the goalposts while cherry picking what to answer/not to answer. Forcing conversations into a certain framing. This takes 1/10th the energy.
The only way to avoid this with you is to not respond to your posts.
You have self-proclaimed that you âlove being rightâ & that you âlike to argueâ.
I have no interest in either.
I realize for some reason Matt is a hot button issue for you that is triggeringâŚ& that things get amplified for you when itâs concerning that topic, & that you show up differently in other conversations.
There are definitely some things that could change to bring you more peace.
is that what I said, or is this more gaslighting?
itâs a parallel energy that it is divisive, creates separation out of ignorance with no attempt to understand.
See â that is an example of your âdebate style,â it is wildly dishonest, has zero has no accountability, & is always trying to paint yourself as a victim by putting words in someone elseâs mouth. Gaslighting. 
thatâs what she saidâŚdontâ leave that out or youâll miss the entire boat, ya handsome MFâr!
If this is your take on me, you are in an extreme minority
Iâm a frigginâ clown 80+% of the time.
You have? Iâve never seen you actually address an argument without lapsing into gibberish.
Hereâs the chance again. Kind of a do-over for you:
What are my statements that support your accusation of a double standard?
All you have to do is present them if they exist
When have I said âI love being rightâ. Thatâs a quote? Youâre also misquoting me on the latter. I said I like to construct arguments. In the Socratic sense. Itâs literally what this board is for. Itâs the foundation of discussion. How that perpetually flies over your head is baffling
Thatâs ironic. Itâs the hot button issue for you. The statements all QBs and teams need some luck when going on a SB run is reasonable and basically what triggered you. All I said was I found it telling that you bring up the missed PI as an example of luck in Goffs CC win but you fail to mention the clutch game tying and game winning drives. No warrior energy kudos there?
Being a clown comes from somewhere. It is based on something. Being a clown can absolutely be used as a form of gaslighting. Sarcasm, deprecating, creation of division, etc. Us vs them to create teams & build yourself up by invalidating opinions of others. Itâs like watching the propagandaâŚoopsâŚI mean news. Itâs gaslightingâŚ.a gaslighting clown
More gaslighting. 
See the âparaphrasingâ you see âŚthrough your lens. Zero of that is quote (or flirts with fact). You are crying about what you are accusing others of crying about.
One person is talking psychology & the other is talking football. Because itâs not quoting football facts, itâs âuncritical thinkingââŚWhy? Cuz you said so.
Lots of ego involved in that line of thinkingâŚOr an innocent victim that is being picked on by the handsome guy?
Letâs ask ourselfâŚis this a pattern for me? for the bald guy? Does he show up that way everywhere, or is it just me who experiences him this way? Am I running into these âissuesâ with lots of ppl, or just one?
Pro tip â if you have an âissueâ with lots of ppl, it may be time to look in the mirror. Even if itâs just one, look in the mirror any way (I am as we speak)
Yes thatâs what you said. Let me break it down for you
You and your QB said that thread was gaslighting blah blah
I said it was Humor
You responded the energy of the humor was like the humor that deprecates race and gender etcâŚwhich is absurd.
You are the clown king of saying shit then when being called on it or asked to clarify you accuse of gaslighting
I donât have an issue with lots of people. Just you and QBhater.
Also Iâve had more than one person PM me saying the same stuff about you Iâm telling you now. You have a mirror too?
For your dining and dancing pleasure.
⌠alsoâŚit can be usex to bring ppl together
-Lions fans are handsome AF
-Lions fans are more handsome than Packer fans, etc
-Jokes about GOAT at every position on our team
Unification, bruh! Not division/ decisive See the difference?
Or â recognizing patterns in myself & others & taking a look at them from a non-triggered place?
See?
Which seems more realistic? Consider the source & take it for what itâs worth.
Happy ppl are generally gonna be up to happy things.
Angry ppl are angry
dramatic people do dramatic things
SaD people Do sad things, etc.
100%
Clown people do clown things
You realize this whole exchange started because you accused me of having a double standard and when asked for actual statements and you realized you were wrong it devolved into the normal Natty regressive psychobabble word soup
Alright, all you guys are doing now is pumping up your scoreboard numbers, and that isnât fair to any of us.
Damn it! Your right. Guys stop debating philosophy word soup vs psychology. 
Iâve seen with my eyes evidence to the contrary, both on the board, & in my inbox when ppl xonât want to deal with you so they keep it to themselves.
We attract what we be. We attract our tribe, as well as the lessons we are supposed to see. all just feedback from the universe, man.
The difference between a judgment & an observation is the energy behind the words. Am I at peace when Iâm talking? yup. Am I looking at myself & my own energy when Iâm talking? Yup. Am I human & âunconsciousâ in moments? Yup
Is âunconsciousâ my general way of showing up? Nope.
Everything & Everyone is a mirror for every single person. The biggest mirror we have is our energy. How are you feeling? That gives you great insight as to wether you are in alignment or not.
Inverse is true & I am aware when I talk about this sort of stuff it will be highly triggering to a percentage of ppl that see it. If Iâm not talking in one of my menâs groups where I am specifically chosen to mentor them, there will ALWAYS be some that criticize, disagree, & even lash out at times. Itâs not a new concept for meâŚif you do what I do for a living, there is a 100% chance of being highly criticized by a percentage of society. Itâs teh exact opposite of hiding & staying close off.